Reputation is a big part of everyone's life. We can't help that. And we can't help but to want a good reputation. There is so many things that go in to your reputation that to be "perfect" would be impossible. The only person I can think of even close to that perfection is Jesus, and over half the world hated him. The thing about reputation is it's made by a bunch of people's opinions. And what they think of you isn't going to hurt them, so they can think anything they want. It's not something you have control over. You can only act a certain way to try and make them change their mind. And then from the other persons view, we have a stereotype to everyone. We have reputations for them all. And the fact is we are just judging them by what we see on the outside or hear them say. And most of the time we don't even make our own judgements, we let the opinions of others seep into ours. I think about this question, "I have a reputation for being the......." and I wonder what people say. Its all secretive to the person themselves. You don't always know what people think of you. I guess that's a good thing but people talk about it behind your back and I don't like that. So I guess to sum it all up, I don't like the idea of reputations but there is no way out of it.
"Don't judge me, it won't do you any good." unknown author
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